(back to first part of Chapter Seven)
It is important to remember that there is no point in trying to force yourself into an ideal position that you cannot sustain. The correct posture is the one which enables you to be as relaxed and as alert as possible within your physical limitations. You need to be sensitive, not forcing your body but caring for it, working as best you can with what you have.
However, in terms of the principles outlined earlier, some sitting positions are definitely better for concentration. For example, the cross-legged full lotus posture gives the best skeletal balance. On the whole, it allows more access to subtle physical energies than other postures, and it is also (if you are used to it) the most comfortable position for long periods of sitting. The next best is some other form of cross-legged posture, for example the half lotus, or a variation of it (fig.3). Then come, in order of preference, kneeling on a stool or cushions, and sitting on a chair. All these positions can be very good for meditation, but though you can meditate effectively in any of them, you should always aim for the position which affords the most relaxation and alertness.
Of course, the trouble with such advice is that our stiff joints and weak muscles are not used to it; they are going to hold us back. Can anything be done?
Whatever your age and however stiff you are it is possible, over time, to make some progress in loosening your joints and giving your muscles more strength and tone by taking a little regular exercise. There are many systems of exercise, and within each system there are many exercises. I have collated here a small selection which can be used to work on the parts of the body most affected by meditation practice.
A warning is required before you read about or try these exercises. The problem with learning exercises from a book is that without a teacher you may do them incorrectly and damage yourself. If you do not fully understand how to work in a particular exercise, you may become over-confident, push yourself a little too hard, and overdo it. At worst, you could put your back or knees askew, painfully and even permanently. So, while the exercises which follow can certainly be experimented with, you must be very gentle with yourself. If you decide to take them up seriously, find someone who can help you to do them correctly.
Of all the many different types of exercise, four stand out as being particularly valuable, though each is quite distinct from the others.
Firstly, there is the approach of standard Western `PT' ( physical training), which usually involves the vigorous movement of selected parts of the body. There are many kinds of PT some very specific, like weight-lifting, others more general. With PT there is less emphasis on bodily awareness, but some very effective methods for stretching and strengthening particular muscles have been developed. PT is good for keeping basically fit.
Then come two Eastern disciplines, t'ai chi and hatha yoga. T'ai chi involves the whole body in a very fluid, dance-like movement. Practised consistently, t'ai chi develops physical stamina and `grounded' body awareness, and combines this with awareness of body movements. Yoga seems at first sight more static since it involves special postures (or asanas in Sanskrit) rather than moving exercises, but within each posture there is a complex of inner stretches, movements, and relaxations. Yoga is perhaps the most exact of the physical disciplines, combining training in bodily awareness with specific, directed exercise.
Another kind of `exercise', the Alexander Technique, does not involve exercise, as such, at all. Like t'ai chi and yoga, it trains the student in awareness of the body and its movements. But it is unique in that it does so in the context of ordinary, everyday movement. Practitioners learn how best to use their body how to re-train the bad postural habits they have acquired over years. I have not included any Alexander Technique methods here (apart from the relaxation at the end) but some people may find it well worth looking into. 40
These four types of exercise have been chosen to demonstrate some of the basic approaches. Obviously other methods are widely practised, for example ` martial arts' such as karate or aikido. From the exercise point of view, these combine different elements of the four types. Teachers of all four methods are widely available these days. You could consider either learning one, or a little of each. Perhaps the ideal approach would be to get a thorough grounding in one physical discipline, and then learn a little of one or two others.
For strengthening and stretching ankles, you can try the ` duck walk'. Walk about the room in curves, not straight lines on the outside edges of your feet (fig.19), keeping the feet straight. You can also try lifting your toes and walking at the same time.
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Figure 19 – walking on the outside edges of the feet to open and strengthen the ankles
Knees can be gently exercised by standing against a wall and supporting one thigh at a right angle from the wall with clasped hands. Relax both the ankle and knee, and then swing the lower leg (fig.20). It is important to relax the hip on the supported side and really `give' the leg to the supporting hands.
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Figure 20 – gentle exercise for the knees
You should rotate the lower leg only very gently and slowly, with just a very little sideways movement swing mainly to and fro. The knee joint has very little sideways flexibility, and stretching it sideways too much, or too sharply, will damage it. It may be easier to do this exercise sitting on a table, dangling both lower legs (i.e. knees, calves, ankles) and swinging them from the knee.
(1) For thighs, you can stand on one leg near a wall (close enough so that you can reach out and regain your balance if necessary), holding one ankle with the leg bent back behind you (fig.21).
The hip on the supported side needs to be relaxed so that it drops to the same level as the other hip. The top of the pelvis should tilt backwards with the tail-bone tucked under; the spine and chest should gently lift. Try to relax and release the thigh muscles as you stretch the thigh.
Then repeat the exercise for the other leg.
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Figure 21 – exercise for thighs
(2) Here is a skiing exercise which is good for thighs. Stand at an arm's length, sideways, from a wall, with your feet together. With your hand on the wall for support, keeping the feet flat on the floor, trunk upright, knees together, and hips at right angles to the wall, lean towards the wall, bending your knees and arm as you go down (fig.22). Then repeat on the other side.
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Figure 22 – skiiing exercise for thighs
The hips and pelvis are often stiff and in need of opening up. These exercises especially help improve cross-legged positions.
(1) You can try kneeling on all fours, with knees wide apart and toes together. Then with your buttocks kept low, you take your chest and arms forward on the floor (fig.23).
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Figure 23 – opening up the hips and pelvis
(2) Or kneel with one bent knee forwards, the other leg bending straight back along the floor behind you, the foot in line with your leg. You support yourself with straight arms, palms against the floor on either side of your trunk. Then turn in your waist towards your kneeling leg (fig.24).
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Figure 24 – stretching thighs and hips
(3) Again, try sitting cross-legged on the floor and cradle one leg in your arms, holding your knee and the sole of your foot between your elbows. Then swing the leg gently from side to side or in a figure of eight. This is good for knees and thighs (fig.25).
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Figure 25 – opening the hip joints: gentle exercise for knees and thighs
(1) Lie on your back with your legs out straight, gently bending one knee and bringing it close to your body by clasping it with your hands. At the same time, keep your other straight knee on the ground (fig.26).
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Figure 26 – exercise for knees and thighs
(2) Or squat down on the floor with your feet apart, holding the knees inside your elbows and clasped hands (fig.27).
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Figure 27 - exercise for knees and thighs
There are a number of very useful general exercise movements in t'ai chi which are good for loosening and relaxing as well as strengthening the whole bodily framework. Here is one.
Stand with your legs a little apart, feet facing forwards. You should not stand up straight and erect, but bend slightly at the knees, letting the lower pelvis tuck forward. Let the shoulders relax and the arms hang loose. Become aware of your breathing, at the same time becoming particularly aware of the stomach area.
Then, keeping your feet where they are for the time being, rotate your whole body from head to ankles gently from side to side, letting your arms swing freely. Let the arms lift out and swing away from the body as the rhythm of the rotation gets under way. Swing round to the left, round to the right, turning the abdomen, chest, neck, and head, all together in one fluid motion. As your momentum builds up, let the shoulders relax as the arms swing; let your loose arms fall naturally against your trunk, if need be, each time you turn. You shouldn't turn violently, but gently and evenly.
Get more and more involved in the movement. As you swing to the left, let the weight of your body move onto your right foot. As you swing right, feel the weight on your left foot. Keep the knees bent they can be well bent now and the lower pelvis tucked under. When you are performing the movement easily you should feel that the momentum comes only from your abdomen.
After a while, move your feet too; turn each foot on the heel when your body turns, so that when you are three-quarters of the way to the right the right foot comes round on its heel to follow the swing of your body. As you turn back to the front, turn your toes to the front. As you go round to the left, turn on the heel to the left in the same way (figs.28, 29).
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Figure 28 & 29 – swinging from side to side, loosening and strengthening the whole framework of the body
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Figure 29
In spite of such a long description, this is a very simple, relaxing, and enjoyable exercise! Give it time it may take five minutes at least to get into the feeling of it. This exercises and tones your whole body. It is especially good for the shoulders, hips, and abdomen.
Yoga is probably the most thorough of all the physical disciplines. There are hundreds of specific asanas for developing every part of the body, only a few of which can be included here. The emphasis in yoga is on being aware of, and deliberately working, every part of the body in each pose. Inner relaxation and subtle movement is consciously `directed' through close attention to what is happening in the body, but (as in the Alexander Technique training which follows) these subtleties can only be appreciated fully through communication with a qualified teacher.
First, here are two simple leg stretches which increase the suppleness of the leg muscles, strengthen the knees, and loosen the hip joints (figs.30, 31). (These are not in fact traditional yoga exercises but are often taught in yoga classes as a `warm-up'):
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Figure 30 – developing flexibility in the knees and backs of thighs
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Figure 31 – sideways leg stretch
Stand upright, with your feet together, in front of a raised ledge that is a little below waist height (the height can be adjusted according to how supple you are). Draw in the muscles of the thighs and knees so that the kneecaps lift up. Then, raising one leg, place one heel on the ledge, so that your leg reaches out in front of you (keeping the knee straight). The ledge should be at a height that allows you to do this bearably, but with a good stretch.
Stand erect with both feet pointing forwards, arms relaxed at your sides. Concentrate on what is happening in your body, encouraging your chest to open and your shoulders to relax back as in meditation posture. Continue to lift your leg muscles.
After a while, change legs.
This, and the next exercise, will develop the flexibility of your knees and the backs of your thighs.
The sideways leg stretch is good for the hips. You use the same ledge as before or a lower one if it is difficult this time standing sideways to it.
Lift one leg and place your heel on the ledge with both legs and your knees straight as before. Have your toes pointing upwards, and your trunk in line with your standing leg, placing your hands on your hips.
Triangle pose is performed in definite stages, and each stage should be regarded as part of the pose, so that your awareness is not scattered.
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Figure 32 – Triangle pose (1) – stand erect…
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Figure 33 – Triangle pose (2) – legs apart, feet to side…
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Figure 34 – Triangle pose (3) – extend over…
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Figure 35 – Triangle pose (4) – raise arm and look up
(1) First stand upright with your feet together, knees and thighs lifting, hands loose at your sides. The coccyx or tail-bone is slightly tucked under and forward. Relax mentally, concentrating and increasing awareness of the body.
(2) Now take your feet about a metre apart, feet facing forwards. Then turn your right foot out ninety degrees to the right, and point your left foot just a little to the right. Raise both arms to shoulder height, keeping your head facing in front. Next, leading with your right arm, extend the trunk sideways over the right thigh, without bending your knee, and keeping your legs, hips, waist, and shoulders all in a straight line. Hold the calf as low down as you can while keeping that straight line. The head is still facing forwards, neck relaxed, knees and thighs still lifting.
(3) Next extend your left arm wrist, hand, and fingers too upwards to the ceiling, and turn your head, looking upwards. Remain in the pose for a few breaths, trying all the time to make it more steady. (If you can keep your awareness in your feet and legs it will be easier to do that, and the pose will generally feel more satisfactory.)
(4) Then, keeping your knees straight, come up to the centre (on an inhalation, ideally generally, try to be aware of your breathing) with arms outstretched and feet facing the front.
Turn your feet to face the front, and do the same pose on the other side. Turn your left foot out to the left, your right foot slightly in, and (on an exhalation) extend over to the left as before. It can help to do this with your back against a wall to keep your trunk and legs in a straight line.
Triangle pose is an excellent all-round pose. It develops flexibility and strength in your legs, knees, hips, and lower back. Take it slowly, and don't strain. Do the pose twice or three times on both sides.
Cobbler's pose is good for loosening at the hips, and regular practice of this pose will make it easier to sit cross-legged.
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Figure 36 – cobbler’s pose: loosening the hips
Sit on the floor and bring your heels together near your body, catching your feet with your hands. Sit upright with an open chest (it might be helpful to have your back against a wall). Then concentrate on the groin and thigh muscles and try to relax in the groins. As you do this your knees will move down towards the floor.
Two people can help one another in this pose if, as you sit against a wall, your partner kneels so that their knees hold your heels close to your body. Then your partner gently places their hands upon your knees without applying pressure. Now you relax in your thighs and groins; the weight of their arm will help stretch your thigh muscles slightly and give you some tension to relax against.
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Figure 37 – a partner can help you relax in this exercise
It is beneficial to lie down and relax, maintaining awareness, after any session of exercise, and this is especially recommended after yoga practice. The Alexander Technique form of relaxation which follows (figs.38, 39) can be used.
There are no specific exercises in the Alexander Technique it works through developing awareness of how we use the body in everyday activities like sitting, standing, and walking. But Alexander teachers do recommend the following.
Sit down on the floor with a small pile of paperback books say one or two inches high two to three feet behind you. Bending your knees, allow your feet to rest flat on the ground at the same width apart as your shoulders (fig.38).
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Figure 38 & 39 Alexander semi-supine position
(1) – sitting down for the relaxation… (2) – final position
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Figure 39
Now roll your back down on to the floor, supporting yourself with your elbows and lower arms, until you are lying on the ground with the back of your head resting on the books. Using your hands, adjust the position of the books if necessary, so that the bony back of your head is resting on the books without their touching your neck.
You may need to adjust the height of the pile so that your head is neither dropping back and down towards the floor, nor raised up to the point where your chin presses down on your throat, causing discomfort. Have the pile too high rather then too low. Generally, your forehead should be slightly higher than your chin.
Then bring your feet a little closer to your buttocks, so that your knees balance easily as they point towards the ceiling. You may need to take your feet a little further apart or closer together to achieve this balance. A certain amount of muscle tension may be necessary to maintain this position, but it should be as little as possible so that there is no gripping on your hip joints or your toes, and no straining in your leg muscles.
Slide your elbows out to the side and place your open hands on your abdomen or your hips; let the floor support your weight.
the above relaxation is combined with Alexander `directions' to your body, it will bring about a lengthening of your spine, a widening of the whole of your back, and a release and lengthening through the musculature of your legs and arms. Giving `directions' is a process of `thinking into the body', and is best conveyed by a teacher. Wilful attempts to make this process happen might lead to your muscles contracting further, instead of the release and integration which directing should bring about.
The directions consist in thinking of the neck muscles releasing, so that the head can move away from the shoulders in the direction shown by the arrow (in fig.39), and in thinking of your back lengthening and widening, and of your knees releasing `upwards' towards the ceiling away from the hip joints and ankle joints.
After you have been lying down for some time, you should never get up abruptly. Instead, roll over on to one side first, letting your eyes lead the movement. Then you can get up gently.
Practised daily for 15-20 minutes, this develops greater poise, and a noticeably improved awareness of bodily movements.